Den Bosch Toastmasters
17th July 19
19:30 – 20:47
Meeting Theme The art of doing 'Crucial Communication'
Word of the Day Rapport

Crucial Communication is communication in situations which require you to choose between 'Saving a friendship' or 'Being true'. Everyone faces this situation many times in his/her life and in different contexts: It can be between a ranting employee and his manager during the appraisal process, could be between husband and wife, Son and father or between two colleagues. In situations like this, do we choose to be angry and thrash the person even we are right or do we choose to be polite and sorry even if the other person is wrong or is there any other way of dealing with the situation? Most of the time, a good leadership qualities are exemplified at the times of this crucial communication.

There are many philosophies around it and 3 which I know and can help to understand this (examples and content around it)

1) PAC model by Eric Berne- Parent- Adult- Child behaviours (a good book around this is - You are okay I am okay) 

2) NVC by Marshall Rosenberg - Non violent communication : video links : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7L3rBTChHs8   | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7TONauJGfc 

3) The art of crucial communication by Joseph Grenny : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uc3ARpccRwQ 

So I would like to encourage the Speakers, Table topic master and Grammarian to try and to select their topics and the content of their speeches around their experience of having crucial communication and suggestive methods to handle these crucial situations. 

I will be happy to help if someone might be confused with the Theme of the day or might find

Agenda
19:30
President
TMDenBosch
1:00
2:00
3:00
19:33
Toastmaster
piyuesh
3:00
4:00
5:00
19:38
General Evaluator
JuliaBT
19:40
Grammarian
kwansupp
19:41
Timer
Salvuccio
19:42
Ah Counter
QuirijnBT
19:43
Toastmaster
piyuesh
19:44
1st Speaker
TMDenBosch
Motivational Strategies
3. Evaluation and Feedback - 2
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Present either a new speech or the same speech that incorporates some or all of the feedback received from the presentation of the first speech
5:00
6:00
7:00
19:51
Toastmaster
piyuesh
19:52
Toastmaster
piyuesh
19:53
2nd Speaker
jeroenm
Innovative Planning
2. Evaluation and Feedback - 1
Life Changing Event
Present a speech on any topic
5:00
6:00
7:00
20:00
Toastmaster
piyuesh
20:01
Toastmaster
piyuesh
20:02
Table Topics Master
Rishika
1:00
1:30
2:00
20:22
Toastmaster
piyuesh
1:00
1:00
1:00
20:23
Toastmaster
piyuesh
20:24
1st Evaluator
JuliaBT
1:00
2:00
3:00
20:27
2nd Evaluator
WillemijnBT
1:00
2:00
3:00
20:30
Grammarian
kwansupp
1:00
1:30
2:00
20:32
Timer
Salvuccio
1:00
1:30
2:00
Ah Counter
QuirijnBT
1:00
1:30
2:00
20:36
Toastmaster
piyuesh
20:37
General Evaluator
JuliaBT
5:00
6:00
7:00
20:44
Toastmaster
piyuesh
1:00
2:00
3:00
Attendance
TMDenBosch, Yeroon, jeroenm, JuliaBT, MarinaDBT, piyuesh, QuirijnBT, Rishika, Salvuccio, WillemijnBT, kwansupp,  
Apologies received